Sunday, 24 November 2013
Relationships and Quotations about Them
"When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on - series polygamy - until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter." Tom Robbins
"Relationships - of all kinds - are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but mostly it will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost." Kahlil Jamison
"The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident." Sir Hugh Walpoe
"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with." Gillian Anderson
"A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart." Leo F. Buscaglia
"You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when it's right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." Keith Sweat
"The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender." Emil Ludwig
"We talk about the quality of product and service. What about the quality of our relationships and the quality of our communications and the quality of our promises to each other?" Max de Pree
"Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude." William James
"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too." Will Smith
"In any relationship where one person depends on another to be his or her "parachute" - and the other accepts this role - both will fall to the ground." Guy Finley
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." Marcel Proust
"The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people." Theodore Roosevelt
"Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand." Emily Kimbrough
"We look at each other wondering what the other is thinking but we never say a thing." Ants Marching
"To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart." Eleanor Roosevelt
"Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow." Swedish Proverb
"Man is a knot into which relationships are tied." Antoine de Saint-Exupry
"Treasure your relationships, not your possessions." Anthony J. D'Angelo
"Assumptions are the termites of relationships." Henry Winkler